Tuesday, April 13, 2010

Make Up Play: Camille

As you know, I love making people's faces pretty! As a matter of fact, if I have the time and money, I would go mainstream with it. But for now, I'm just enjoying playing with my make up on my favorite people and hopefully, I can continue doing this with as much favorite people as I can.

Here's how I did on Camille, my brother's girlfriend:

without flash and with flash

FACE:

The Body Shop's Tea Tree Concealer in shade 02
Ellana Mineral Foundation in Macchiato
my own custom made bronzer for the cheeks

LIPS:

By Nature's Lippy Pot Balm
Luminare Lip Slim in Vino



EYES:
Urban Decay Eyeshadow Primmer Potion
Monave Multipurpose Powder in Soft Fuchsia for the entire lid
Ellana Multipurpose Minerals in Orchid for Outer 3/4 of lids
Ellana Multipurpose Minerals in Laugh for Outer V
Ellana Multipurpose Minerals in Dove for tear duct and brow bone
Ever Bilena Singles Eyeshadow in Cleo mixed with BE Weather Everything Liner Sealer to line upper and lower 3/4 of lashline
Ellana Multipurpose Minerals in Wish to define the eyebrows
Cover Girl VolumeExact Waterproof Mascara in Brown (yeah, i don't have it in black, but am hopeful to get one, soon!)


Not bad eh?! More pics on my Facebook Page! Thanks!


your every woman,

Monday, April 12, 2010

Conversations with Ella Part 1

In these series of posts, I will be documenting some conversations with Ella so we can all follow through how her comprehension improves...



I noticed that I had several grammatical errors here, so please excuse me...hahaha! I just wanted it to be as candid and impromptu when I recorded it because it's a mother-daughter conversation after all!

Wouldn't it be nice to see something like this when you're all grown up?! Mom and Dad must've been so proud!

your every woman,

Sunday, April 11, 2010

Ella's Potty Training Part 1


I understand how toilet training can be a crucial stage in our child's development. But what actually led me to proactively toilet-train my daughter are 2 things: 1. The unbelievable rise in cost of living, not only in the Philippines but also around the world and 2. The natural calamities that caused increase awareness in protecting the environment. Disposable diapers are getting more and more expensive these days and they take about 450 years to decompose! (source: http://www.ktka.com/news/2008/apr/17/break_it_down_how_long_does_trash_take_degrade/) I wouldn't want to add up to all the environmental pollutants! However, I think it's a little late to start with cloth diapers now, not to mention it's inefficiency for my family set up during sleep because of my work-sleep prohibitions.

Anyway, so I introduced Ella to toilet training when she reached her 1st year and got a potty trainer as a present. I didn't force-train her that early though. I just taught her what her pink seat was for and waited until she clearly showed feelings of pee or poop. That happened a few months before her 2nd birthday. Since then, I have been instructing everyone in the house to encourage Ella to go to the potty every 30 minutes to sit down, even though she isn't feeling anything. When she pees successfully, we give her a variety of rewards: a kiss, a hug, a "very good" clap, sweets, juice, etc. Training for number 2 had been more difficult. She knew when she felt like pooping because she was always constipated (something we just recently found an effective remedy to...). But she didn't want to do it without a diaper because she thought it was yucky! That was our fault, by the way, because we started out telling Ella that her poop is yucky when she was younger and I found out that it's not supportive for toilet training. Parents and caregivers should educate children that peeing and pooping is the body's way of getting rid of waste and it's just normal.

Now that Ella is 2 years and 4 months, I'm proud to say that she doesn't use diapers during the day anymore. She has accidents, which we very lightly react to, whenever she's too preoccupied with play or tv. But she's getting better. She had also tried pooping in the potty about 3 times, but she's still grossed out about it and would rather not. At night and during her afternoon nap, she still needs to wear diapers. I was told by another mommy that training during sleep would mean having to break the sleep cycle to go to the toilet. I believe Ella is too young for that and we'd more likely get into a tantrum fit than get her trained. So I'm parking that for Toilet Training Part 2...and hopefully voluntary potty pooping.

You can also learn more about toilet training from these links:

http://www.askdrsears.com/html/10/T106600.asp
http://www.parenting.com/article/Toddler/Development/Potty-Training-Guide

Tell me about your toilet training experience with your kids! It would help us a lot!

your every woman,

Saturday, April 10, 2010

Winning Over Eczema

I am very happy now that I'm winning my 6 year battle with eczema!

When I was in 2nd year of college. I noticed that the skin on my ankles are developing a callous, which was odd because I don't constantly rub my ankles on anything (Who does anyway?). So when my brother introduced a chemical callous remover he bought from Quiapo, I immediately agreed to become his quinea pig. He said that on the demo, results were seen just after a minute of applying the product. With that statement, I assumed that if it worked in about a minute, it would work better if given a longer time. I placed it on a cotton ball that I taped to my ankles for 30mins.

And whaddaya know, I was wrong! It turned out to be acidic chemical that's supposed to burn the callous for removal and 1 min is the max wait time. When I removed the cotton ball, it brought layers of epidermis with it and left me with red, raw and gooey exposed epidermis that never healed! My immune system reacted to the chemicals and I was left with crusty skin on the ankles that itched like hell and gets red and oozy when irritated.

I was sooo embarrassed to even go to the dermatologist for it. But when I eventually had the guts to consult specialists, I always left their clinics disappointed. Why? Because they don't help me. I had about 3, and all of them were more concerned about making money out of my dilemma instead of actually helping me out. They prescribed me with expensive products they formulated on their own and can only be bought at their clinic. I gave in and actually bought the prescription on one occasion only to find out that the products were just hypoallergenic moisturizers comparable to Cetaphil and did nothing for my condition. I didn't want to consult any derma after that. I was traumatized because having to share the appearance of my ankles to 3 strangers was a big shame swallowing experience for me!

Luckily, there's the Internet. I Googled life experiences of people that had the same symptoms as what I was experiencing and found out that I have a case of stasis dermatitis -eczema that occurred in the lower extremities, where there is poor venous return. From the articles that I read, I learned that to treat my skin condition, I have to break the itch-scratch cycle. Of course some articles suggest modifying diet, maintaining moisturization, and regular excercise to keep a healthy blood flow as the primary remedy for eczema, but there's a percentage of people who simply can't resist the urge to scratch the "deadly" itch. I even reasoned out to my hubby that scratching had become involuntary...I'm sure eczema sufferers can relate to me.

So I followed their advise and started applying a topical steroid called Dermovate. What I liked about Dermovate is that it comes in a thick balm-like consistency that moisturizes the affected area while making sure that active ingredients are being absorbed by the skin. It acts to stop the itch while the skin's healing. After 2 weeks of constantly applying the ointment on my ankles, I finally got the courage to show this to everyone!


my healing ankles now...It's got a scar similar to burnt skin, but that's better compared to how it was before!

And due to the "yuckiness" of before photos, I'd rather not post them here. But if anyone is interested enough not to be grossed out by them and would like to know how grave it was before the "after" photo above, just please send me an email and I'll be more than happy to share more.

I'd have to reiterate this disclaimer though, that TOPICAL STEROIDS ARE NOT TO BE APPLIED ON A WHIM! One should only use it if all other remedies don't work and must be used sparingly. It cannot be continuously used for more than 2 weeks without the advice of a dermatologist. It can be dangerous and cause side effects, you know! Make sure that you follow the instructions given to you by your dermatologist if it was prescribed, or the instructions on the enclosed package insert.

Now that my ankles are healing, I make sure that I take care of my skin daily. I'd rather go through the tedious routine of applying moisturizers than go through that eczema ordeal. Here are a few good products I keep:

drugstore beauty buys...Some said fragrance in Olay Body Butter Ribbons isn't good for eczema, but my skin is benefiting from the product!

goodies from By Nature's 100% Natural Products...

*Trivia: There's something called Lip Licker's Dermatitis and although kids are the one's commonly diagnosed with it, adults can get it too! That's when BN's Lippy Pot Balm come in handy! It's unscented and unflavored, meaning it won't post the temptation to lick lips!


'Hope this helps!

your every woman,

Friday, April 9, 2010

I Draw For A Living: Korean Beauty Products Giveaway

Watching Korean artists invade our tv screens everyday makes one wonder "How do they maintain their porcelain-like skin?!". No wonder Korean beauty products have become such a hit in the local market too!

If you want to try some of their products, then this is a great time to join my friend Lizz' April giveaway!

What to do?

1) Blog about the contest and answer the following question: "What is the one skin care product that you can't live without?"
2) Follow her blog using Google Friend Connect! (Click on the "follow" button on the sidebar to the right).
3) Drop a comment on the post with the URL of your entry and your Email Address. This is so she can contact you if you win! :)

If you want to double your chances at winning:
*Tweet (or plurk) about the contest and drop another comment with the URL of your tweet (or plurk!) so she can double check.

The prizes are stake are the ff:

Etude House nail polish in her favourite pink shade; Etude House Total Age Repair Toner, Emulsion and Essence (travel sized); Innis Free Green Tea Pure Essence and Serum (2 vials each), Innis Free Green Tea Cream and Cleansing Foam (1 trial pack each), SkinFood Wipes, a gorgeous Nature Republic 2010 calendar (it's got Rain on every page!), an Etude House fan, Tony Moly BB Cream (2 packs), Missha BB Cream remover (2 packs), and some lovely Sooyohan face cream (3 packs)

And as a bonus, the winner will also receive 4 travel-sized bottles of Johnson & Johnson lotion, a full-sized bar of Glutamax soap, and Emotibles earphone charms!

The winner will be picked through random.org on April 28, 2009 at midnight. Goodluck!

For me, the one skin care I can't live without is moisturizer. I have very dry, reactive and eczema prone skin. If I don't moisturize my skin, chicken skin and eczema are most likely to occur. And I would NEVER want it to happen again (more on my battle with dry skin problems in succeeding posts!).

So what are you waiting for? That's a whole lot of a giveaway, so join now!!!

your every woman,